Do Women Test?
How To Deal With Women Who Want To Take Charge
How To Tell A Girl What You Do
Women Don't Need Men To Be Good Moms
Learned Weakness
Managing Your Neediness
"So What Do You Do?"
The Courtship Ritual Is Redundant
I’m left stunned, completely unaware of what ghastly crime I had committed. I was probably 16 or 17 years old at the time. This was my first taste of an explosive female reaction to a miscommunication.
I ran things back through my mind as I sat there in the car and decided that it wasn’t my problem, it was hers. What I thought at the time went like this, if she can blow up like that in reaction to what I just said then I don’t want to be around her. I saw it as unpredictable and therefore to be avoided.
What I have since concluded goes like this. If she didn’t have the patience to ride things out to either confirm or not whether I was actually saying what she thought I was saying then I wasn’t going to waste my time trying to talk her down from her righteous indignation. I never talked to her again.
I have long since figured out what crime I committed, or rather, what crime she imputed to me. I in effect told her, “let’s just be friends”. Which in fem-sprache means, “I will never ever have sex with you but I will use you for menial tasks as well as emotional validation.”
How To Deal With Women Who Want To Take Charge
How To Tell A Girl What You Do
Women Don't Need Men To Be Good Moms
Learned Weakness
Managing Your Neediness
"So What Do You Do?"
The Courtship Ritual Is Redundant
I’m left stunned, completely unaware of what ghastly crime I had committed. I was probably 16 or 17 years old at the time. This was my first taste of an explosive female reaction to a miscommunication.
I ran things back through my mind as I sat there in the car and decided that it wasn’t my problem, it was hers. What I thought at the time went like this, if she can blow up like that in reaction to what I just said then I don’t want to be around her. I saw it as unpredictable and therefore to be avoided.
What I have since concluded goes like this. If she didn’t have the patience to ride things out to either confirm or not whether I was actually saying what she thought I was saying then I wasn’t going to waste my time trying to talk her down from her righteous indignation. I never talked to her again.
I have long since figured out what crime I committed, or rather, what crime she imputed to me. I in effect told her, “let’s just be friends”. Which in fem-sprache means, “I will never ever have sex with you but I will use you for menial tasks as well as emotional validation.”