The Ego Test
The Paradox Of Choice
The Psychology Of The Hottest Girls
The Truth Comes Out In The Bedroom
The Wingwomen Service
Undeniable Proof That The Dating Scene Is Seriously Screwed Up
Women In Male Dominated Professions
Your Duty As A Man
However – something is definitely ‘off’ between him and this woman. She seems like she is more than a bit of a flirt (based on the bikini pic and the flirting the OP has observed with multiple men). It may be that she is playing the OP’s boyfriend – using him as a listening ear about her woes and getting affirmation. Lots of married people do this – have a little something with chemistry on the side to make them feel attractive. (Not condoning this, just making an observation.)
It MAY be that when he was single, he was more drawn into the interaction with this woman and now that he is with the OP, he is less interested. His replies to her texts seems somewhat innocuous (except for the ‘you look hot’ one and calling her ‘baby’). He seemed surprised and not particularly happy about the idea of going on the weekend vaca without her husband being there. I tend to think they are not having an affair right now. His response about the drinks “Thanks for inviting me” does not sound like something you would say to someone you were having an affair with. But nonetheless, something isn’t kosher.
So since she snooped, and she knows that the woman’s marriage is rocky, and she can’t un-know the info she learned, she is going to have a challenge. Either she tells him she snooped (which is risky, as you said) OR she can try to gain information in a more discreet way. I wonder if she could broach a conversation about this woman based on things she has legitimately seen (not through snooping) and get a feel for where things stand (or maybe learn a little history) from her boyfriend. I might do that before I came clean and admitted to looking through the texts.
The Paradox Of Choice
The Psychology Of The Hottest Girls
The Truth Comes Out In The Bedroom
The Wingwomen Service
Undeniable Proof That The Dating Scene Is Seriously Screwed Up
Women In Male Dominated Professions
Your Duty As A Man
However – something is definitely ‘off’ between him and this woman. She seems like she is more than a bit of a flirt (based on the bikini pic and the flirting the OP has observed with multiple men). It may be that she is playing the OP’s boyfriend – using him as a listening ear about her woes and getting affirmation. Lots of married people do this – have a little something with chemistry on the side to make them feel attractive. (Not condoning this, just making an observation.)
It MAY be that when he was single, he was more drawn into the interaction with this woman and now that he is with the OP, he is less interested. His replies to her texts seems somewhat innocuous (except for the ‘you look hot’ one and calling her ‘baby’). He seemed surprised and not particularly happy about the idea of going on the weekend vaca without her husband being there. I tend to think they are not having an affair right now. His response about the drinks “Thanks for inviting me” does not sound like something you would say to someone you were having an affair with. But nonetheless, something isn’t kosher.
So since she snooped, and she knows that the woman’s marriage is rocky, and she can’t un-know the info she learned, she is going to have a challenge. Either she tells him she snooped (which is risky, as you said) OR she can try to gain information in a more discreet way. I wonder if she could broach a conversation about this woman based on things she has legitimately seen (not through snooping) and get a feel for where things stand (or maybe learn a little history) from her boyfriend. I might do that before I came clean and admitted to looking through the texts.