Christmas Bonding Between Husbands & Wives
It’s Better To Give
Dealing with a jealous love partner
Don’t ruin your marriage by keeping secrets
He LOVES me?
How does obsession and control mar your relationship?
How to Make a Healthy Relationship?
How to Ask Someone Out for Date?
In general, men are judgmental of sexual experience in women – but you know that. Alphas with high numbers may not be as judgmental – to them 20 partners may be rounding error. But the beta guys want a woman who didn’t give BJs to frat stars in college, that’s for sure. So a woman who wants to fall in love and marry should a) avoid man whores and b) limit her own sexual experience to meaningful relationships.
I have always been open about my sympathy to beta guys, having married one and mothered another. I think that anyone who reads my blog regularly knows what I’m about.
If my readers were paying customers, perhaps I would feel more obligated to offer full disclosure, but since it’s all gratis, I figure people can decide for themselves whether my voice resonates for them personally. I have no obligation to readers other than honesty. And I don’t feel compelled to take sides with one gender or the other. My goal, as I said, is to bring together the vast majority of “have nots” in the SMP.
on April 15, 2011 at 10:08 pmSusan Walsh
@Marvelous White Male
I have been open about my own sexual history on my blog. I have often observed that many of my regular commenters would have disqualified me based on that, and yet I have been faithful to one beta male for 29 years. He is a very good man, smart, creative, interesting. I have never felt the need to seek “alpha” qualities elsewhere.
It’s Better To Give
Dealing with a jealous love partner
Don’t ruin your marriage by keeping secrets
He LOVES me?
How does obsession and control mar your relationship?
How to Make a Healthy Relationship?
How to Ask Someone Out for Date?
In general, men are judgmental of sexual experience in women – but you know that. Alphas with high numbers may not be as judgmental – to them 20 partners may be rounding error. But the beta guys want a woman who didn’t give BJs to frat stars in college, that’s for sure. So a woman who wants to fall in love and marry should a) avoid man whores and b) limit her own sexual experience to meaningful relationships.
I have always been open about my sympathy to beta guys, having married one and mothered another. I think that anyone who reads my blog regularly knows what I’m about.
If my readers were paying customers, perhaps I would feel more obligated to offer full disclosure, but since it’s all gratis, I figure people can decide for themselves whether my voice resonates for them personally. I have no obligation to readers other than honesty. And I don’t feel compelled to take sides with one gender or the other. My goal, as I said, is to bring together the vast majority of “have nots” in the SMP.
on April 15, 2011 at 10:08 pmSusan Walsh
@Marvelous White Male
I have been open about my own sexual history on my blog. I have often observed that many of my regular commenters would have disqualified me based on that, and yet I have been faithful to one beta male for 29 years. He is a very good man, smart, creative, interesting. I have never felt the need to seek “alpha” qualities elsewhere.