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Should he treat you like trash so there’s no confusion about his intentions (or lack of intentions)?
Not trash, but keep it real. This isn't a love thing, so why are you treating it like a love thing? Why are you staying and cuddling? Why are you introducing her to your friends? Why are you telling her that you love her? Why are you sharing your hopes and dreams with her? If she's there for chex, have chex with her, say thanks, have a safe trip home, talk to you later. No "good morning" texts, no "how was work"…what's that got to do with the chex? Or perhaps you're using her for emotional support. Good luck. I don't know a single woman that can be the emotional support for a man that she can envision a future with and not fall in love. Talk to your friends that are girls, cause yeah…you could treat that woman like dog ish and she'd probably just hold out hope that she could nurse you back to emotional stability…we. bond. through. talking. Emotional intimacy is a powerful, powerful drug.
Let's keep it real gully. It all comes down to selfishness. You want what you want. You want the chex when you want it. You want to be the life of the party that all her friends like to giggle at. You want to be the guy that she talks about to her girls because you brought her chicken noodle soup when she was sick. You want that emotional support when life's got you down. You want someone to call when you get good news. You like that adoration and respect that she gives you. You do want her to love you…until that interferes with whatever else you got going on. Be it work, other women, man time, school, a sense of freedom, that quirk about her that makes her unmarriageable to you, whatever. At least own that ish. We've almost all done it at one point. But when I took advantage of a man for selfish reasons, I could say that I was being selfish and at least admit to MYSELF that I needed to stop. I didn't blame him for fallin in love with me, when I was never interested in him in that light, even after I told him. I can't be mad at someone LOVING me. What kinda sense does that make? a) I'm lovable, not being funny, not being conceited, but d@mn, I'm worthy of love and it makes sense to me that folks would see reason to love me. b) love is not something that you can turn on or off on a whim. No one in this world should be shocked when someone loves them. You gotta have like NO self worth to be mad when someone falls in love with you. You mad for being LOVED? Now that's some #FirstWorldProblems for yo @ss….